My children haven't spoke to me in about 6 months and when they cuss tell this wish I was dead. The 2 younger one talk to me but my older 2 don't. The older 2 have emotional problems and blame them on me. I told they are grown now and time to quit blaming for their problems and accept the blame on themselves. I know I wasn't the perfect mom but I went by how I was raised and it wasn't always the right way. I tried and I loved all 4 of them.