My wife and I are in the midst of the divorce process and am just totally helpless & broken. We have been married 16 years and a lot of those years I was an angry / anxious person and this summer in June she finally confronted me about this. At that time I made a pretty instant 180 and changed my ways and my wife admitted it was impressive how much I have changed. But... I think it was too late. One other part of this equation that doesn't make much sense to me is that my wife basically also said in June that she no longer believes in God / is a Christian or at least not THEE Higher Power, just a higher power. We tried through the summer up until a few weeks ago and I thought all was getting back on track and it turns out she was sort of just faking it to try to make it be ok, she just doesn't love me anymore which is hard for me to believe that can just go away. but alas, here we are. we have two boys and I am mostly sad for them. I pray for some sort of miracle in all this.