pray for Lauren's spiritual sole --she has just had a baby boy10 weeks) by her narcissistic 40 year old boyfriend (she is 40) and now he is having a mid life crisis and will help with baby but not live there and wants to date around - he verbally abuses her but she needs help with the baby for now --but he pushes her self esteem down making overeat(50 lbs overweight) and drinks wine to often but not to drunkeness-she is a great mom but lives in a depressing relationship--she needs to lean on Christ more instead of the tv or a wine --never drinks during the day--has good support from friends --but he brings her down and is hard to motivate her to get things done--